Wednesday, 3 February 2010

Sex drive

A while ago I was talking with HE who has been single (again) for the last few months. He told me since being single he didn't have much sex yet and sex is not high on his priority list at all. One night, some guy put in a lot of effort and HE decided to take him home, however he told me he almost had regretted it even though the guy was cute and the sex not bad.
I must say that for the last year or so I have the same attitude towards sex that HE has. It happened naturally, it is not a conscious decision at all. Sex dropped substantially on my list of priorities and I don't regret it at all. Ten or even five years ago I would feel a bit unhappy if I didn't "score" for the weekend, lately I couldn't care less. I go to the bars to hang out and have fun with my friends, and even when there is a clear opportunity to have sex more often than not I decide it is too much hassle and not worth the trouble.
The low sex drive gives a strange (but pleasant) feeling of peace. I wonder if it will stay this way or if my wild days will ever come back........


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